With no drop or kit 17's would probably look the best.
-ditto on 17s..w/out a drop or a kit this is your sweet spot.
-i prefer the mille miglia mm 11-3s over the moda's you also pictured. much more clean in my opinion
-45 is not too thin of a sidewall without a drop. look at it this way: your stock tires (assuming you have the 16" alloys) have a sidewall of 50...so you are still adding height (because your wheel is growing an inch) even if you minus the 5mm (something like that..i forget how tire sizes work...you can use this to find out exactly: eunos.com: tire calculator
..scroll to the bottom of the page)