i know the veilside is a perfect fit
Veilside, real and replica, do not fit well and require a bit or time to fit correctly. Veilside kits are notorious for the bad fit.
Look at it this way, you can spend $600 on a replica Veilside kit (looks exactly the same as the normal kit) and get the look. The other option is you can spend $3,000+ on the APR kit, $1,500+ on the fitting and painting and $2,500+ on a new set of wider rims so your car doesn't look funny. If you're willing to drop over $7,000 (easy) on getting it looking right go for it.