you can basically get any kit, just gotta learn how to drive the car with a kit on.
true. if you care for your car, you always gotta drive carefully. but it also depends on where you live. my cuzin from chicago was riding with me in the streets of LA and i feel that bumbs n dips here are horrible enuff. he says the roads here are level and smooth compared to the cracked up roads in chicago. so...if your area has a lot of huge dips that are sure to mess up ur kit, then choose wisely.
if ya want my opinion, i'd say TRD
has best the looks for good clearance.